16.8.11

To bury the hatchet or not?


Holding onto hurt can be such a waste but at the same time to move on, it’s inevitable that it’s done.

Personally though, I’m not ready for that…or rather, there’s no need for me to make peace with anyone. I just choose not to do anything about it. There are a number of people that I hope I never cross paths with, some of who read this blog, nevertheless, I’ve reached that point where I’ll just carry on living. Certain things are absolutely unforgivable in my books and for that it’s best for me to cut communication overall.

Since this is my personal blog, I choose to write about my woes freely.
I’ll give an example; I have a “friend” that feels it’s absolutely fine to relay false information to my partner as if to divert him from my relationship with him. It’s absurd. My choice of attack – forget about communication overall and gradually phase the individual out of my life. It’s a tough call but necessary.

With my decision to move to another part of the world, I don’t have any remorse tying me down to friendships that were not real in Edmonton. I did the same thing when I left my home-capital for Canada. It was a tough call but I pulled through.

A friend knows when they’ve crossed the line and will be hasty in apologizing and putting things right. A shady person that has been posing as a friend will not want to talk about it, but still want to benefit something from the friendship…

True?

1 comment:

  1. Hey Martha, I just discovered your blog and I love everything on it because it's so personal, we rarely get to see the real side of people on blogs nowdays. I know what you mean about phasing some people out of your life, some people are not worth a battle or even a parting shot.

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