It's common knowledge that life as a single parent, especially in the first years is one of more downs than ups. Unfortunately, I feel like I have had one too many downs; but the ups are slowly making a come back and I couldn't be happier. Anyhow, enough of that jazz....
I NEEDED to read this...
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Alaskan Single Mama is a winner of Top 25 Single Moms - 2013
What's the biggest misconception people have about single parenting?
I have struggled with the misconception that my boys are somehow less off or disadvantaged in some way because they do not come from a two parent home. I have felt first hand prejudice against me and my family because I am a single mother and most discouragingly prejudice from the school system and my children's teachers. I resent the assumption that single parent households are in some way less than two parent households and would even suggest that a happy, functioning single parent household can be a healthier place for a child than an unhappy, dysfunctional two parent home.
What's the most rewarding thing about being a single parent?
I share a very special and very rewarding bond with my two boys, with lots of affection and great open communication, that I think is due at least in part to the fact that I am their only parent.
What's the most important thing being a single parent has taught you?
I have learned so much from being a single mother for the past 10+ years. I have learned to rely on myself. I have learned to patch drywall, change a tire, bake a pie, sew a halloween costume, run a household, and raise joyful and well adjusted sons. I have also learned that I truly can accomplish my goals when I put my mind to it. I CAN go back to school and get a graduate degree while working full time and solo parenting. I CAN take on that new intimidating job as an adjunct professor. I CAN add a child to our family through adoption. And I can model this with pride for my two beautiful boys.
I'm a winner! Full-time school, full-time job, side hustle, full-time single parenting....and I smile everyday.
Cupid's day tomorrow.
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